Worried after recieving anal sex.?
29 October 2014, 06:45 PM
So here's the deal. (please no judging I really am worried and would like opinions). I met a guy about a day and a half ago. He is my roommates friend and I just met him for the first time. Yes I am a guy too, to get that out of the way. So long story short we ended up having sex. Bad idea I know. One night stands aren't my thing, it was a bad decision. So anyway. Truth be told it was my first time RECIEVING anal sex. He was also pretty big. And he went pretty hard. It hurt a bit but I made him stop a few times and it didn't last very long.

Concerns:
-I feel sore still. Just a little bit but he was big and I'm worried I have a tear or something in my colon and I can get an infection or something.
-halfway through he took off the condom without me realizing. He didn't ejaculate inside me and told me he was clean. If he is lying, what are my risks for anything? A minute tops of unprotected sex and he didn't ejaculate.

It's been worrying me ever since. Thoughts like "I'm going to get HIV" and "He ruptured my colon and I'm going to bleed to death in my sleep" have been running through my mind :(

NEVER again will I do this so carelessly but please any feedback?!  
Answer
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I hope I can help ease your mind!

Okay, if you had a tear or anything like that, there would be blood. Even the smallest bit, just pay attention when you wipe, but since you never mentioned blood, i'm sure you are fine!

Of course it'll be sore, even for the next few days, that's natural! If it was done less rough and you were more prepared, it wouldn't hurt as much but giving the circumstances, yes it's normal to be sore!
Also, the colon is pretty far up, i dont think he would have reached it
I think the chances of you catching anything is low, hopefully he was clean like he said, and if so, you will be fine!

Take it a day at a time and try relax.
If you do start noticing blood, any strong burning especially after going to the bathroom, or if you're still in a lot of pain in the next week, do see a doctor, just to be sure and to ease your mind

I'm sure you're fine, stress can cause weird symthoms in the body

Take it easy and good luck x
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